About

My Story

Hi, I’m Ebony Rae—your Fairy Grief Sister.

I help grieving daughters feel again, heal again, and glow again.

I became a caregiver for my mom when I was just 20 years old. While other 20-somethings were out finding themselves, I was going to chemo appointments and learning how to advocate in hospital rooms. My mom was my best friend, my anchor, my everything, and she fought metastatic breast cancer like a warrior for 12 years.

When she passed in 2017, I was 33 and completely lost. Grief hit me hard. My friends couldn't relate, and no one gave me a manual on how to function when your heart’s been shattered.

I tried to carry on, but I didn’t know my purpose anymore. I smiled at work, cried on the drive home, and scrolled social media wondering how everyone else seemed so... fine.

I felt like I was floating through life with no anchor, no direction, no glow.

But something in me refused to stay lost.

I started reading. Journaling. Tapping into my spirituality.

Bit by bit, I began to come back to myself. A softer, wiser, spiritually stronger version of me... grief and all.

Now, I help women like you do the same.

You don’t have to do this alone.

Grief doesn’t come with a manual, but it should come with a Fairy Grief Sister.

✨ Let’s find your glow again.

Ready to join the Fairyhood?

💫 Who I am

I’m a grief guide, certified grief educator, and Fairy Grief Sister for millennial women navigating life after losing a parent.

I’ve spent years in survival mode, in silence, in the fog of grief no one ever warned me about.

Now, I help other women soften, rise, and glow again.

I blend my 8 years of personal grief, my experience as a patient navigator supporting people through cancer, and my love of rituals, crystals, music, and meaning to walk with women through the hardest transitions of their lives. All with heart, humor, and sacred softness.

Yes, I believe in honoring your grief and your glow.

Yes, I believe healing can include glitter, playlists, and ugly crying.

Yes, I believe joy is still possible, even after deep loss.

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🚫 Who I Am Not

I’m not a licensed therapist or medical professional.

I don’t diagnose, prescribe, or promise quick fixes.

My work is not a replacement for therapy. It’s a sacred companion alongside it.

I hold space for your healing.

I offer tools, truth, and tenderness.

This is a space where you get to be seen, held, and slowly glow the hell up with your grief and all.

No pressure. No pretending. No perfection required.

 

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🌷 What I Offer (And What No One Tells You About Grief)

People will say all kinds of things after you lose someone.

They mean well. But they rarely tell you this part:

You can heal.
Okay... but how? When?

You will laugh again.
Sure, but when will it stop feeling like betrayal?

You can find your sparkle.
Cool. How do I even begin?

You can become someone new without forgetting the person you lost.
But who am I now?

As your Fairy Grief Sister and Grief Coach, I’m here to help you explore those questions with real tools, gentle rituals, cozy support, and zero judgment.

Whether you’re fresh in the fog, finally ready to feel again, or craving a full-blown glow-up after grief...

I’ve got you.

✨ Explore my offerings

✨ Take the Glow-Up Quiz

✨ Or just sit with me for a while. You’re allowed to be exactly where you are.

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